thanks for pointing that out. that was a duh moment 
so if i want to be able to use vscode to remote in and manage containers(solved) and run sudo for whatever needed(already possible), how do i get it to allow vscode to install itself in the home dir of truenas_admin? apparently allowing that changed in a previous release: VSCODE SSH Server Error - #3 by awalkerix and i need to use a different home dir on my pool. can i just change truenas_admins home dir like that or whats the best way to go about setting this up?